拿的稳我吗你太重了
[ná de wĕn wŏ ma nĭ tài zhòng le]
This phrase 'Can you hold me steady, you’re too heavy?' could be translated to imply 'Do you think you can carry this out? Or are things beyond the capacity you have taken upon yourself?' It may be referring metaphorically to bearing emotional weight, challenges, or responsibility. Another humorous take could be simply saying the person physically feels heavy to hold up.