mm温柔不是姐的范儿mm和蔼不是爷的范儿
[mm wēn róu bù shì jiĕ de fàn ér mm hé ăi bù shì yé de fàn ér]
This name expresses the idea that being gentle and kind is not in character for either a lady or a man; instead, it implies they are tough or have a tougher persona. It's a humorous way of expressing a rebellious and non-conformist attitude toward traditional gender roles.