离人怎挽不挽怎离
[lí rén zĕn wăn bù wăn zĕn lí]
'How to hold back the parting ones? How to leave if one is not to hold back?' A bit poetic, this online name captures the feeling of helplessness during a separation. It indicates someone who struggles with the inevitability of parting, and the impossibility of holding back those who wish to leave. This person might value connections but struggle with loss.