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            [hăo jù hăo sàn wŏ dăo zhe lĭ jiĕ]
        
        
            Usually implies a graceful acceptance of a breakup or parting ways. This twist indicates interpreting this common phrase inversely, possibly expressing reluctance or a personal difficulty in truly believing or accepting the gracefulness in farewells.