分手后想他只是痛的你自己
        
            [fēn shŏu hòu xiăng tā zhĭ shì tòng de nĭ zì jĭ]
        
        
            'Thinking about him after the breakup just hurts yourself'. This reflects a lesson learned from past emotional pain, recognizing the futility of lingering on lost love, and possibly advocating healing and moving forward.