对爷们温柔对媳妇低头
[duì yé men wēn róu duì xí fù dī tóu]
Translated to 'Be Gentle with Men, Bow Down to Your Wife', this nickname reflects the concept of having different attitudes towards different types of people. The user may express that they can show gentleness or kindness to peers, especially to strong men (ya men), while also respecting a partner deeply. This phrase plays with stereotypes and traditional values.