灯火阑珊不诉离殇累若成河苦不堪言
[dēng huŏ lán shān bù sù lí shāng lĕi ruò chéng hé kŭ bù kān yán]
'灯火阑珊不诉离殇累若成河苦不堪言' means that 'Amidst faint light in the evening, one doesn’t want to talk about how unbearable sorrowful it is because the hardships have accumulated like rivers. It conveys feelings of exhaustion, pain, hardship, or depression without seeking sympathy.