不想不念不代表不想念不闻不问不代表不在乎
[bù xiăng bù niàn bù dài biăo bù xiăng niàn bù wén bù wèn bù dài biăo bù zài hū]
This suggests that while the person may not show it outwardly, deep down they still care about others or situations even if they do not express it overtly or seek updates on purpose.