不快乐那就放手吧放不下那就痛苦吧
[bù kuài lè nèi jiù fàng shŏu ba fàng bù xià nèi jiù tòng kŭ ba]
If You're Not Happy, Then Let Go; If You Can't Let Go, Then Bear the Suffering conveys two attitudes towards unhappiness and reluctance in life: one option is liberation by releasing it, another is accepting pain due to lingering attachment. It shows a mix feeling of giving up and persistence in dealing with complex human relations and emotions.