不娇柔做作没人爱不温柔大方没人赖
[bù jiāo róu zuò zuò méi rén ài bù wēn róu dà fāng méi rén lài]
A longer saying that roughly translates to: if you don't act coy no one will love you, if you're not gentle and generous no one will depend on you. It sarcastically points out societal expectations on appearances and personality, especially towards women. However, due to the inherent contradiction and exaggeration, it hints at dissatisfaction with these unrealistic standards.