便害相思
[biàn hài xiāng sī]
'Bien Hai Xiangsi' translates literally as 'harm misses.' It conveys a romantic notion: missing someone dearly to the point that it can feel almost like one is hurting from longing and love. In the Chinese culture, especially within its rich tradition of poetry and lyrics, there is often a glorification of profound feelings and emotions towards lost loves or beloved ones far away.