伴她绊她爱他碍他
[bàn tā bàn tā ài tā ài tā]
'Accompany her, hinder her, love him, get in his way.' This reveals complex interpersonal entanglements. It shows that when loving or being infatuated with someone, one sometimes finds themself doing both positive and negative things, including getting tangled up emotionally or making trouble unconsciously due to feelings and interactions.