傲娇不成攻腹黑怎为受
[ào jiāo bù chéng gōng fù hēi zĕn wéi shòu]
Derived from fan language, especially within BL communities, it loosely means 'If you can’t play dominant, you can only play submissive,' reflecting personality dynamics often seen in fictional romance settings, where one character starts with an aloof yet eventually becomes deeply involved and vulnerable over time.