爱我还是我碍着你了
[ài wŏ hái shì wŏ ài zhe nĭ le]
The meaning contrasts two extremes in feelings towards someone: either they love you very much or they find you so annoying. The phrase is often used sarcastically, conveying frustration and dissatisfaction with how someone treats the speaker. The English equivalent might be ‘Do you love me or can’t stand me?’, expressing ambivalence and confusion about relationships.