自作多情的思念那叫犯贱
[zì zuò duō qíng de sī niàn nèi jiào fàn jiàn]
'Obsessive Love Or Longing Is Seen As Despicable' highlights feelings of self-pity or overly sentimental emotions towards someone who does not reciprocate. Such longing can feel embarrassing or even demeaning to oneself because of lack of recognition or response from the beloved.