自找的痛不敢喊痛
[zì zhăo de tòng bù găn hăn tòng]
'Zi Zhao De Tong Bu Gan Han Tong' can mean 'self-inflicted pain that dares not to cry out'. It refers to someone who is in a state of pain because of their own reasons but doesn't have the courage to express their pain, maybe due to fear, shame, or other reasons.