自相情愿这是你给我的借口自欺欺人这是你给我的理由
[zì xiāng qíng yuàn zhè shì nĭ jĭ wŏ de jiè kŏu zì qī qī rén zhè shì nĭ jĭ wŏ de lĭ yóu]
Refers to using self-deception or making excuses in love. It translates to 'selfishly making up reasons, this is your excuse for self-delusion'. It conveys feelings of desperation or delusional justification.