咋们相爱是缘分那不是缘分是孽缘
[ză men xiāng ài shì yuán fēn nèi bù shì yuán fēn shì niè yuán]
Our love is destined, but if it is not destiny then it is a curse (or a disastrous relationship). The term expresses confusion and complexity between destiny and fate concerning romantic relationships, possibly suggesting that being together is either meant to be beautiful or may have some undesirable aspects as a consequence.