予取予求又把温柔当附和
[yŭ qŭ yŭ qiú yòu bă wēn róu dāng fù hé]
Means 'demanding everything but treating kindness as complacency'. Used for describing scenarios where one is overly demanding or entitled and views others’ kindness, tolerance, or gentleness as mere obedience. It reflects dissatisfaction with how genuine care can sometimes be misunderstood or misused in interpersonal relations