有时候不主动你会失去但太主动会换来不珍惜
[yŏu shí hòu bù zhŭ dòng nĭ huì shī qù dàn tài zhŭ dòng huì huàn lái bù zhēn xī]
Expresses wisdom or experience: 'Sometimes, if you’re not proactive, you may lose out; however, being too eager can make the other person take it for granted'. It’s about striking the right balance.