因为得不到所以假装不想要
[yīn wéi dé bù dào suŏ yĭ jiă zhuāng bù xiăng yào]
'Pretending Not To Want Because It Can’t Be Gotten' represents coping through denial: feigning disinterest toward an unattainable goal or unreciprocated love as self-protection from pain. It reflects the vulnerability underlying this behavior along with the complexity of desires in real situations.