得不到所以假裝不想要
        
            [dé bù dào suŏ yĭ jiă zhuāng bù xiăng yào]
        
        
            'Unable To Have, So Pretend Not To Want' captures feelings after missing out on something desired, using rationalization to cope. It reveals a defense mechanism used when someone can’t attain what they yearn for, choosing to hide or divert those desires away.