以冷落老公为耻以热爱老婆为荣
[yĭ lĕng luò lăo gōng wéi chĭ yĭ rè ài lăo pó wéi róng]
The nickname states one's belief that it's disgraceful to neglect a husband but honorable to passionately love a wife. It plays with traditional marital norms and expectations regarding affection.