烟灰系美男高冷系腐女
[yān huī xì mĕi nán gāo lĕng xì fŭ nǚ]
Combines two terms, referring first to a 'handsome man like ashes,' symbolizing melancholy beauty, and secondly to a 'cold yet deeply emotional girl,' often found among fans of romantic anime and drama. This could also reflect the duality of masculine and feminine characteristics within one's identity.