言不由衷爱不由人
[yán bù yóu zhōng ài bù yóu rén]
This longer name 'Yan Bu You Zhong Ai Bu You Ren', can be translated to 'Words are not from the heart, love cannot be controlled'. These phrases show emotional struggles, such as speaking without honesty or genuine feeling because the flow of emotions—especially love—is sometimes out of one's control. This implies the speaker's vulnerability or conflict.