心软是病心狠是药
[xīn ruăn shì bìng xīn hĕn shì yào]
'Soft-Hearted Is A Sickness, Heartless Is The Cure.' This phrase reflects on personality types—suggests viewing overly empathetic people (heart soft) as a negative quality or issue, whereas those who seem uncaring or tough-minded ('heartless') are viewed oppositely as the solution.