信命但不认命失败但不失态
[xìn mìng dàn bù rèn mìng shī bài dàn bù shī tài]
'Believe in destiny but not resign myself to fate; be unsuccessful but not embarrassed' demonstrates an attitude of facing reality while striving for a better life without succumbing to despair or embarrassment in case of failure. It shows both resignation and defiance against adverse fates or situations.