我姓赵却照顾不了你
[wŏ xìng zhào què zhào gù bù le nĭ]
I am surnamed Zhao, but I can't take care of you. This reflects an attitude of being unable to fulfill responsibility or commitment to others despite personal intention due to various difficulties encountered, using the surname as a marker of identity. (Note: In China, surnames are usually placed at the beginning of personal names.)