我无理取闹还不是你惯出来
[wŏ wú lĭ qŭ nào hái bù shì nĭ guàn chū lái]
Translated as 'I behave irrationally, but isn’t it because of your spoiling?' This expresses self-awareness yet defensiveness about one’s bad behavior, often directed towards those perceived as too lenient. It suggests an understanding of unreasonable actions rooted in another person’s permissiveness or excessive indulgence.