我深知爱情不是生拉硬扯
[wŏ shēn zhī ài qíng bù shì shēng lā yìng chĕ]
Means 'I deeply know love isn't forced'. The expression suggests a matured understanding of love—that true romance cannot be artificially created or sustained only by effort without mutual attraction, trust, or timing. This nickname reflects wisdom regarding interpersonal relationships and the acceptance of what love truly entails.