我没有与生俱来的温柔
[wŏ méi yŏu yŭ shēng jù lái de wēn róu]
Means 'I was not born with gentleness'. It hints that kindness and grace are not inherent traits for this individual, yet doesn’t say they are completely lacking in compassion. Perhaps emphasizing their struggle between natural behavior versus cultivated demeanor; showing realism or seeking understanding from outside when admitting personal limits.