痛是别人给的伤是自己好的
[tòng shì bié rén jĭ de shāng shì zì jĭ hăo de]
'Pain is Given by Others, Healing is Done by Ourselves' implies an attitude of self-healing and resilience despite suffering hurt because of other people's actions. This indicates that while we can get hurt by others, we ultimately have the strength within ourselves to overcome such injuries.