撕心裂肺你给的苍白
[sī xīn liè fèi nĭ jĭ de cāng bái]
This conveys a feeling of being utterly heartbroken and hurt due to someone else's actions leading to emotional exhaustion. The term 'pale' (here translated as 'wan') could indicate the resulting weakness, lack of vitality, or emotional color from such distressing events.