是现实把奴家逼成了泼妇
[shì xiàn shí bă nú jiā bī chéng le pō fù]
Reflects someone feeling oppressed by reality and thus losing grace or control due to harsh circumstances. 'Nu-jia' means a self-deprecating way of saying 'I' for women and '泼妇' (violent woman) signifies a complete loss of composure or dignity in challenging situations.