认真你就输了动情你就哭了
        
            [rèn zhēn nĭ jiù shū le dòng qíng nĭ jiù kū le]
        
        
            "Take It Seriously and You Lose; Fall in Love and You Cry" expresses a philosophy that getting overly invested in anything can lead to loss or pain, suggesting maintaining emotional distance and nonchalance might be safer or wiser.