忍气吞声说声没关系不如优优雅雅说句操
[rĕn qì tūn shēng shuō shēng méi guān xì bù rú yōu yōu yă yă shuō jù cāo]
A rather impolite way of saying that swallowing pride or pretending things are okay when they aren’t would be better phrased in an elegant manner rather than resorting to swearing. The latter part has vulgar slang included which means cursing.