情若能自控我要心何用情若能自控心定不会痛
[qíng ruò néng zì kòng wŏ yào xīn hé yòng qíng ruò néng zì kòng xīn dìng bù huì tòng]
This is rather philosophical regarding emotions. If emotions can be controlled, then what use is the heart, implying a belief that true feelings lead inevitably to hurt; if one’s emotional responses could always be kept in check, the resulting turmoil would be prevented. This name expresses ambivalence towards emotions and pain associated with them.