女为悦已者容男为悦己者穷
[nǚ wéi yuè yĭ zhĕ róng nán wéi yuè jĭ zhĕ qióng]
This name reflects an ancient Chinese saying: women dress up for those who appreciate their beauty, and men may go to great lengths to impress someone they admire. It speaks to the efforts people put into relationships.