女人可以风流但不能人流
[nǚ rén kĕ yĭ fēng liú dàn bù néng rén liú]
The term 'A woman should be elegant but not frivolous'. Here elegant means graceful, fashionable; frivolous means behaving incautiously regarding chastity. Such terms are somewhat controversial in contemporary society. But traditionally, people appreciate graceful behavior while avoiding overly provocative or indiscreet actions.