女人就得宠越宠越有种男人就得爱越爱越无赖
[nǚ rén jiù dé chŏng yuè chŏng yuè yŏu zhŏng nán rén jiù dé ài yuè ài yuè wú lài]
This expression emphasizes traditional views regarding gender stereotypes where it's believed that a woman needs affection to thrive whereas men need freedom but may take advantage when overly loved. Some might find this viewpoint problematic nowadays.