女人不拽何来被甩
[nǚ rén bù zhuài hé lái bèi shuăi]
'If women aren't haughty, how will they experience heartbreak' - the term expresses an ironic take that only when a woman acts too independent (or somewhat high-and-mighty) can she eventually suffer rejection. Here 'heartbreak' refers specifically to disappointment in matters of love or relationships.