你主动找的那人永远不是我
[nĭ zhŭ dòng zhăo de nèi rén yŏng yuăn bù shì wŏ]
Literally means: 'The person you voluntarily seek out is never me.' Conveying heartbreak and sadness over being overlooked by a loved one who does not initiate or reciprocate affection or communication with this person.