你太重我放不下你太轻我不敢放
[nĭ tài zhòng wŏ fàng bù xià nĭ tài qīng wŏ bù găn fàng]
'Ni Tai Zhong, Wo Fang Budxia, Ni Tai Qing, Wo Bugan Fang' roughly translates to 'If you are too heavy I cannot put down; If you are too light I don’t dare put down,' suggesting the importance and difficulty in handling relationships, love, or responsibilities. This expresses internal conflict: someone very important might be hard to give up because of emotional weight, and vice versa, someone seemingly less significant might still be held tightly for fear of losing them easily.