你说爱我又不爱我
[nĭ shuō ài wŏ yòu bù ài wŏ]
Describes confusion and dissatisfaction in response to contradictory signals from others. One moment they declare love then act indifferently at next instance. Such attitude leads partner into dilemma whether they truly love me or do they play game of cat-and-mouse with feelings, resulting frustration or grievance within the relationship.