你拿他当命他当你有病
[nĭ ná tā dāng mìng tā dāng nĭ yŏu bìng]
'You consider him as important as your life while he treats you like you're crazy.' This name or saying conveys disappointment and frustration in an unfair and unreciprocated relationship dynamic where one person’s deep affection is not returned with mutual respect.