你隔岸观火不曾想对面有我
[nĭ gé àn guān huŏ bù céng xiăng duì miàn yŏu wŏ]
A poetic way of expressing feelings of being overlooked. The literal meaning is watching a fire from across the river, not realizing that someone stands opposite. Here it implies emotional neglect and loneliness despite visible presence.