你不必牵强的说爱我
[nĭ bù bì qiān qiáng de shuō ài wŏ]
Means 'you don't have to force yourself to say you love me'. It expresses understanding when someone is not really in love, asking them to face their true feelings and be honest. At the same time, it reflects certain pessimism about the possibility of love and a kind of self-protection mentality, saying that rather than lie and bring more trouble to both sides, it would be better to be realistic