能深拥别推开会推开别深拥
[néng shēn yōng bié tuī kāi huì tuī kāi bié shēn yōng]
'If we can embrace deeply, don't push away; if you will push me away, don't give a tight hug.' This expresses a longing for genuine connection or interaction rather than mixed signals or emotional instability within a relationship. It means actions should align with intentions, and one should not create unnecessary turmoil by sending contradicting messages.