能不能别硬撑
[néng bù néng bié yìng chēng]
'Can You Stop Struggling Hard?' sounds like begging for relief or giving up effort when bearing heavy burdens. When saying so, users tend to convey their tiredness, frustration and need of break/rest after persistent endurance against tough situations, implying that they do not intend or unable to continue holding on, instead expecting empathy, support or understanding from listeners.