难拥有不强求
[nán yōng yŏu bù qiáng qiú]
'Not Forced to Possess the Hard-to-attain' represents a person's state of mind towards unachievable goals. It shows a kind of open-minded attitude that if it is too hard to get, you will not strive for it by any means, implying peace of mind to accept things as they are.